What does Fr. Mike teach us to be careful about when we are choosing 'what' to pray?
Don’t try to do too much in prayer.
When you do pick what or how you will pray, stick with it for a ‘season,’ a period of time where you commit to pray in a certain way.
Can you see a similarity between keeping a prayer practice for a 'season' and the participants of the eye experiment being asked to keep looking for 1 minute?
In the eye experiment, the people had to focus in order to keep looking at each other for a period of time.
In prayer, we need to keep communicating with God in a particular way for a period of time.
Keeping consistent with a way of praying, allows us to focus on our communion with God, instead of on how we are communicating with Him.
This is similar to the way a person with glasses needs to focus on looking through his glasses, instead of looking at his glasses.
Why is the 4th tip about 'Why we pray' the most important?
Because we need to keep the goal of prayer in mind, so that we get out of prayer what God intends most for us.
Sure, God wants to give us consolations and answer our prayers. But most of all, He wants us to have a living, loving relationship with Him.
That intimate, loving relationship with Him is the only thing that will ever satisfy us.