Your husband needs your neediness for being cherished, your sensitivity, in order for him to grow more God-like. Your wife needs your neediness for encouragement and respect in order for her to grow more God-like. Only through humility can we be vulnerable about our deeper needs and then tenderly offer that precious gift to each […]
As a Catholic father of 10 and grandfather of 3, I have been deeply disturbed by our current crisis. My concern has grown further after reading the December 17, 2021 letter of Dr. Robert Moynihan. I have been following for years his weekly reporting: The Moynihan Letters. In this letter, he reprinted the serious and disturbing statement of Dr. Robert […]
3 mins 47 secs Dad, if you won’t make the effort to value your daughter’s purity, don’t expect her to! Genevieve turned 15 in November. She is blossoming into a beautiful young lady. She’s been waiting for a date and … a ring. In our family, when a daughter turns 15, I take her for […]
2 minute 47 sec read Ready to be blown away by this story? If I’d heard it as a boy, I would’ve dug into my Catholic faith sooner. So, SHARE this with your kids! In 1070, Duke Boleslas II governed Poland, and St Stanislaus was Bishop of Cracow. Boleslas scandalously neglected his duties, and Stanislaus […]
6 minute read Fed up with our crooked and perverse generation? Me too. Distressed by the signs of our times: the corruption and immorality of some Catholic priests, government officials, big tech leaders, school boards, university administrators, business professionals, and medical personnel? How can we turn the tide when it is rising into a tsunami […]
5 minute read It is hard to remember new names. One trick is to repeat a person’s name when you’re introduced and try to connect it with something they said. Then use it again as quickly as possible. The night before my nephew’s wedding in San Diego, I was doing a poor job of that. […]
“Unknown Caller” appeared on my phone. I knew it was either spam or Fr. McCarthy. Father wants to make sure people call the parish office, so he keeps his cell number private. Since it was the morning of Christmas Eve, I took a chance and answered. Father’s business-like voice launched into a request: “Would you […]
I didn’t sign up to screw up my kids. Fatherhood was going to be GREAT – adventures, hugs, and giving better than I got. 27 years, 10 kids, 6 months of couple’s counseling and 1 year of Catholic psychotherapy later, it’s the break of dawn before my eldest daughter’s college graduation and I’m a mess. […]
Catholic Sprouts invited me to host their podcast this week and share five of my favorite saint stories. I immediately agreed, and to be honest, the only difficulty was whittling it down to just five.
4:50 am. I lie awake, tired and questioning. Is this headache enough for me to just go back to sleep? 5 drowsy minutes slip by. Lord, is it Your will that I get up anyway? Silence. Though I do get the ever-so-slight feeling that I should just get up and go, I question if it’s […]